I have learned about many aspects of caring for older adults in this course. Although we have talked about care of older adults in other classes, this one went more in depth and helped me see aging in a different light. It can be difficult to try and see something from someone else’s perspective, but the VR modules helped me greatly. I also appreciate being able to realize what changes in adults are expected and those that are abnormal and due to illness or other disability. Society looks at aging in a mainly negative light, but this class has taught me that couldn’t be farther from the truth. There is beauty in aging, and we shouldn’t be so scared to grow older.
The VR module that gave me the perspective of an individual near the end of life was very impactful. I’ve been near those in their last moments of life, but never knew what it might be like for them. I always wondered what they could hear, see, and process. From the VR, I can gather that they pick up on their environment and what’s going on better than we may think. I thought about this when I visited my Grammie the last few times. She was on hospice, and I stayed with her and talked to her like she could hear me. Not only was this comforting for me, but I hope it was for her too. I will use this knowledge when I care for patients in the future who are dying and to help comfort their loved ones.
The people who I’ve listened to during this class have debunked many aspects of aging that I once believed. Dr. Gugliucci and my interviewee both shared thoughts on aging that greatly differ from what I previously knew. They both shared how happy and fulfilled they are with their lives, which should be the “norm” of aging. People should know what to expect as they age and realize that there can be so many good things that happen and it’s not just about decline. There can be growth, pleasure, and fulfillment. I will take these positive thoughts with me and use them to shape the care I give to older adults.
